3 Quickie Tarot Spreads For Love & Relationships

3 Quickie Tarot Spreads For Love & Relationships

If you look online or in the numerous tarot books that are available, you will come across hundreds if not thousands of tarot spreads that are specific to love.

Love is an integral part of human experience and as such, is a question that most people at some stage in their life are looking for answers for. So, if you have ever asked the question “What Tarot spread should I do for love?”, take a look at these simple 3 card tarot spreads that anyone can use.


3 Card Spread For Finding Love

3 card tarot spread
  1. Card 1: What You Need in a Relationship
    • This card represents qualities, values, or aspects that you need in a relationship for it to be fulfilling and supportive of your personal growth.
  2. Card 2: Potential Obstacles or Challenges
    • This card highlights potential obstacles or challenges you might face in your journey to find love. It could provide insight into aspects of yourself or situations that may need attention.
  3. Card 3: Guidance for Finding Love
    • This card offers guidance or advice on how to approach finding love. It could suggest actions to take, attitudes to cultivate, or areas of focus to enhance your chances of meeting a compatible partner.


3 Card Relationship Spread

3 card tarot spread
  1. Card 1: Present Situation
    • This card represents the current state of your love life or relationship. It provides insight into the dynamics and energy surrounding your romantic situation at the moment.
  2. Card 2: Challenges or Obstacles
    • This card delves into the challenges or obstacles you might be facing in your love life. It could indicate external factors, internal struggles, or any issues that may be influencing your relationship.
  3. Card 3: Advice or Outcome
    • The third card offers guidance or insight into the potential outcome of the situation. It could suggest actions to take, perspectives to consider, or a likely outcome based on the current circumstances.


3 Card Spread -Understanding Your Relationship

3 card tarot spread


  1. Card 1: Your Perspective
    • This card represents your current feelings, thoughts, or energies in the relationship. It provides insight into your role and perspective.
  2. Card 2: Their Perspective
    • This card represents the other person's current feelings, thoughts, or energies in the relationship. It offers insight into their role and perspective.
  3. Card 3: Relationship Dynamics
    • This card reflects the overall energy or dynamics of the relationship as a whole. It can shed light on the connection between you and your partner, potential challenges, or areas of growth.


As with all Tarot spreads, the answers that you receive should be intuitively interpreted. The cards are not literal, for example, if the present situation card is the “Death” tarot card, it does not mean that your relationship is dead. The death card deals with change, and it may be interpreted that your relationship is moving through a period of change. Try not to let your biases cloud your reading- lay the cards out and look at them as a whole. The cards are not meant to be read singularly, rather they are interpreted as a story.

It is also important to note that when it comes to the Tarot, it does not work alone. If you are looking for love, you can do as many tarot spreads as you want, but if you never leave the house or communicate with other people, you will never find love.

On another note, if you are having relationship issues, it is fine to consult the Tarot, however if your situation is serious, you may need professional help such as relationship counselling. Also, if there is any abuse, do not consult the cards to understand the other person’s perspective until you are out of the way of harm- at a later date you can reflect and try to understand the situation when it is safe to do so. Tarot should be used to aid your relationship, not to make excuses for staying where you know you shouldn’t be.

Let us know in the comments section if you have tried any of these spreads. Did you like them?

Want to keep these spreads handy? Head on over to our Pinterest page and pin them for later!

If you are looking to buy tarot and oracle cards, check out our collection here.

Back to blog

Leave a comment

Please note, comments need to be approved before they are published.